Tuesday, August 30, 2016

First Day of School for the kiddos. Last first day for Austin. Senior this year. Jessie a freshman this year and Logan a 7th grader. Wow time is flying by. I am not liking this getting older and the kids leaving crap.



The kids being back in school is a love/ hate relationship for me. I love that I am back to a set schedule now and going back to the gym regularly, and getting up early, but I also miss the lazy days of summer, and sleeping in and having no set schedule.

Today being the first day of school it was so frantic. I didn't get done half of what I was planning to do. Between the gym, meeting with the guy who is doing our landscaping and going over things with him, to helping kids with school work and freaking out because I cant remember how to do freaking mixed fraction equations and now a days  the math they teach in school is so different then how we were taught I cant even figure it out anymore. Thank heavens for google. It's just so stupid because most of what they learn they will never use again once they get out of school.

Then it was more yard stuff, and getting dinner on the table at 8PM poor kids to having to run to walmart for some more school supplies for the kids and not getting back till 9:30 past time to get kids into bed.  My poor doggies leg or hip is hurt and he is not putting any weight on it and hopping around so worrying about him, I am missing my oldest who is serving her mission and is struggeling with homesickness. She called from the MTC last week in tears hoping that talking to me would help her feel better. Talk about being put on the spot for some great wisdom and counsel. I hope what I told her helped and we had family and friends flood her email with words of encouragement and had a family fast for her this past sunday so hoping she is having a much better week. My step dad is having surgery on his stomach today and its a pretty extensive surgery so worrying about him. And here it is 11:30 and instead of being in bed I am up on here journaling. Ha ha well guess I will call it quits now that I have ranted of my day.

Finally got Allies pre mission picts back so I will post some on here hopefully tomorrow.



 

Friday, August 19, 2016

Flaming Gorge, Allie's Farewell and MTC dropoff

So I wasnt very good at taking pictures at Flaming Gorge. I had forgotten my camera so what I do have was taken with my phone one afternoon. I wish I would have gotten alot more. We had so much fun up there. We had Allie's friend Doc Cronin come up with us. He had never been to Flaming Gorge before. I think he had a pretty good time. Even cousin Mike was not able to scare him away.

I was a little bummed we did not get our traditional watermelon football game. That's always so fun. But the kids had fun with their traditional kayak wars of trying to dump the other off their kayak and their king of the tube games. This year having Doc up there he is pretty buff and strong and all the kids decided to gang up on him and take him down and try and get him off the big tube and constantly was trying to knock him off his kayak.  The needed a little help getting him off the big tube so I had to pull out the big guns and come help them tip the tube over. I think that took him a little by surprise.


Doc trying to get back on after being tipped off the kayak.



He was trying hard to stay on..





 
 



The girls found some baby crawdads.



I took Allie up to the canyon to try and get a few pictures pre mission for her missionary plaque but my camera battery was dead so I had to use my phone camera and I wasnt impressed how they turned out so we had our good friend Christina Noorda take them at the temple after her farewell and she got alot of good ones so I will have to post them later when I get them back.







He likes carrots!
Allies Farewell was so great. She did an amazing job on her talk. She gets that from Steve. They just have the natural ability to talk and have it sound so amazing. We had so many come to us and say how amazing it was and how wise she is beyond her years and how she sounded like a missionary giving her homecoming talk. and how shs going to be an amazing missionary.
Of course I was so busy I totally forgot to grab the camera and take picts of her with all those that came to see her. We prob had at least 100 people here. We had some come all the way from Santaquin to see her. It was a great day.  I managed to get a couple picts of those who were here at the very end.
  
The Cronin Family
 
Afterwards we ran down to the temple to have Christina take some pictures of Allie for us. These are just a few I took with my camera. they wont be nearly as good as Christina will be but thought I would snap a few anyways. I will post the others as soon as I get them.
As soon as he told us this Allie just started to tear up. For this was also her scripture she had chosen to be her favorite scripture to go on her missionary plaque. Pres. Lowe didnt realize why Allie was tearing up about this and when we told him he was just taken back and astonished that they both shared this same favorite scripture. He said he had no idea that she had chosen that scripture. This was just further testament to us that he was meant to be the one there this night to set her apart and to share that story with her.  There just is no coincidents in the Church and in the Gospel. Further testament that she is going where she is supposed to and heavenly father is aware of her and her needs and is with her.

This is her pinning her pin on the map of where she will be serving.
 
The day had to come to take her to the MTC. It was a very solemn day. Probably one of the hardest things to witness was Allie and Austin having to say goodbye. Austin couldnt go to the MTC with us due to him having a Madrigal retreat so they had to say goodbye at home. Also both of them knowing it would be 3 years before they got to see each other gagain because in 10 minths Austin will also be going on his mission. So the emotions were very high and it was very heartbreaking to see watch them say goodbye. I thought I was doing good till I had to see that.
The ride down for the most part was pretty quiet minus the sniffles going around the car. We stopped off in Provo to have lunch at Costa vida one of Allies favorite places to eat. Then we drove over to the temple across the street from the MTC to take a few pictures. It was pretty tough.








Posing for some selfies.








we had 5 minutes to spare after taking pictures and getting in the car so we decided to pull over and say a prayer. I offered to give it. It was so hard. It took a couple minutes just to calm myself down enough to talk, but I think it was a pretty good prayer for her. Dropping her off at the MTC. It was very emotional for all of us. She puts on a pretty good face.


I had to drop Steve off at the airport right after dropping Allie off so he could go back to Cali for work, which left me going home alone with the girls to be sad.  When I got home I found these on the counter. She had arranged for my mom to get these for me and had a note to go with them already written which said she missed me already but the time would go fast.  Of course the waterworks started all over again.



 An awesome sister in our ward had brought this to us the day before. It is so beautiful. She owns a flower shop.



I went for my allergy shot and on the way home I ran into Doc on the corner. He had just left our house dropping something by for me. So he turned around and came back when he saw me. As soon as I saw him I just grabbed him and hugged him and started to cry which caused him to cry. But it was good to talk with him for a bit. He had brought this for me for a source of comfort. What a thoughtful guy. It couldn't have been a more better gift. Tissues to wipe away me tears and chocolate kisses to make me feel better. What woman doesn't need chocolate to make her feel better.  What a sweet guy.






Life here without Allie is different. I miss her every moment. I am always worrying and wondering how she is handeling the homesickness. She has always been my child to struggle with that so I worry about that. I did get a email that night saying she got her first companion and she wasn't impressed with her first mtc meal. She wasnt sure what to think of her first companion yet. She said she was cool but had a take charge go get em type of personality and kinda ignored Allie a bit.  I told her to have patience with her that in no time she would soon be the same way. She was still struggeling with homesickness but said they were throwing alot at them so to keep them busy which is a good thing and I am sure is for that very purpouse to keep them busy so to not dwell on missing home.  Her P-day will be next thursday so we will hear more about her first week then. In another quick email she sent today She had said she got another blessing which has helped make her feel a little better. I am glad she was able to do that. I feel bad she is still struggeling with the homesickness but its only been 2 days so I know it will get better. I told her to not be afraid to ask for as many priesthood blessings as she needed. That is was a privelage and honor to use the priesthood and receive its power.  That is what it's there for.

Cant wait to hear from her Next Thursday.  We have a missionary blog for her for those who would be interested in following her. Its alliegatorsmission.blogspot.com  Let me know and I can add you. Also her mission email is allie.hoyt@myldsmail.net for those who would like to email her. And if your interested let me know and I can give you her physical address as well.